Are You Dating?

Date Night

What do you have planned for the weekend? With Labor Day on Monday plan something special for you and your spouse. What do you have planned?

I’m Mad He’s Mad

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I’m mad. He’s mad. We both are talking but no one is listening. Can you relate to that scenario? The hubby & I use to have heated disagreements (we still have disagreements they are not heated anymore). They would go on & on (seemed like hours). I would get all emotional & start saying how [...]

Planning Your Marriage

Think about this: what if you planned your marriage with the same intensity you had when planning your wedding? Remember all the planning & asking all the important questions to ensure that your big day was a success! If we would just use that methodology toward our marriage a lot of the surprises wouldn’t be [...]

Unequally Yoked in Thinking

Honestly, when I was thinking about this topic, I had one thing in mind “spiritually” unequally yoked. However, I started sharing and talking with others and talking with them, it was very clear to me that unequally yoked doesn’t only apply to your religious beliefs but all aspects of marriage. As individuals, we have our [...]

Love Summit

Love Summit

Love Summit I am so excited to announce that starting September 4 for 14 days (Monday-Friday), we will host Love Summit. This September it will be an online marriage retreat you can attend right from the comfort of your home. Love Summit will broadcast on Sol Searching Radio Show beginning September 4 (my wedding anniversary). [...]

Respect in Marriage

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R-E-S-P-E-C-T is a must in any relationship & marriages are no exception. On last evening, I watched in horror as one wife degraded & disrespected her husband. Yes, unfortunately I was watching “reality tv.” KeKe Wyatt, an R&B singer, is starting in the new TVOne show R&B Divas. KeKe & her husband Michael are a [...]

No Head-butting

We have always heard the saying “Keep your hands to yourself.” However, in recent news, head-butting is the topic of discussion. Spousal abuse on any level, including head-butting, is not acceptable. Over the weekend, Chad Johnson, was arrested for head-butting his wife.  There is never a reason for putting your hands or head on your [...]

Weekly Motivational Marriage Text

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How would you like to receive a motivational marriage message right on your cellphone? I send out a weekly text to the couples. The text is just a little reminder of things to do or not to do to help strengthen your marriage. If you would like to receive the texts sign up here.  

Ten ways to love

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Which of the ten ways are you showing love to your spouse?

Excuses Excuses Excuses

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Last night at bible study, Bishop Stephens talked about excuses. He said that EXCUSES are a cowardly expression which seeks to release you from obligations and responsibilities. Read that statement again and again because I know many like me did not think of excuses in that manner. As Bishop was sharing the lesson last night, [...]

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