So you guys just had a major disagreement. You mad. Your spouse mad. In the midst of the tension your spouse apologize but you are so hurt, how do you forgive and move on?
It’s really hard to let thins go when you feel like the victim. You just may be the victim but you don’t have to “act” like the victim.
If your spouse genuinely apologized and you accepted the apology, just how can you continue to hold on to the argument/disagreement? When you do hold on, you are not being truthful with your spouse and it does keep you guys from moving on.
How to move on
Yeah, yeah I know you mad and you have all rights to be mad; however, you told your spouse you forgive them.
With that forgiveness, you are saying to your spouse this discussion is closed and we came to a mutual agreement about the situation.
Now, if that’s not the case then say so! Don’t give your spouse false sense of security when in the back of your mind you are still holding on to resentment.
So what should you do:
Yes, I know it’s hard. I’ve been there done that but you stressing and still upset will not repair your marriage and move you guys forward.
How do you forgive and move on?
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