Have you had to talk about a not so easy topic & didn’t when or how? In marriage, we will have those times we must talk to our spouse about sensitive topics. We always hope for the best but we also know that things can go left if we don’t present it right & at the right time.
While timing isn’t everything, it is often the most important factor in determining how you and your ideas will be received.
In personal relationships bringing up sensitive issues when the other person is tired, not feeling well or thinking about something stressful, is risky. When you do, the chances that you will cause irritation and end up feeling rejected are high.
It’s natural to assume that the negative reactions of others are signals that they don’t care. But, in reality, you would probably react in the same exact way, given the same situation.
Be sensitive to when you bring things up. Don’t let your excitement and enthusiasm blind you to the concerns and pressures of your partner or friend. When you want your partner’s support, make sure the time is right. When you do, it’s more than likely your excitement will be shared.
Today’s Affirmation: To ensure support, I bring sensitive issues up when the time is right.
©Jane Powell – Meditations for Women
Sally Jones says
Timing is a really important issue that most people don’t give enough thought to when they broach difficult subjects.
After a great meal is generally always a good time!
When there is no blood flowing to their brains, but everything in them feels satisfied with the world!