You hear all the wonderful stories about sex in marriage but in reality, folks don’t tell you about the moments in your marriage when sex is not happening. There are plenty of benefits of sex in marriage but reality is LIFE HAPPENS and sex is the last thing on your mind.
Let me help you understand how sex works in marriage and the importance of having sex with your spouse.
I’ve been married for almost 19 years and let me tell you life happens and when life happens sex is not the most important aspect of your life. My husband is a truck driver so there are some days he doesn’t come home. There are some days I’m just not in the mood to even be touched.
If you have kids at home, your day could be so busy that you don’t know if you are coming (no pun intended) or going.
Oh don’t get me wrong, you recognize when you haven’t been sexed in a long time because your whole being/mood/attitude will be off.
Seriously….
I know for me when it’s been weeks since the last time my husband and I have had sex, I become a monster. Yep, an evil monster.
As a woman, I need that intimate physical connection with my spouse. For one, it helps relieve any “built up” stress. Sex really is a stress reliever [for me].
Think about it: When you have sex with your spouse you aren’t stressed because you too busy enjoying the moment and how they are making you feel.
I suffer from insomnia. Anyone that follows me on social media can catch me on the net odd hours of the night. It’s because I just cannot sleep…..
Oh but when the hubby is home and putting it down real good, I sleep like a baby! (Yes, I know that’s TMI but hey you can agree when your spouse is sexing you good and on the regular, you sleep like a baby). Come on now, don’t be shy now. I mean we talking about sex on the web lol
This is why we must stop looking at sex as a chore or an inconvenience but we also must recognize that life happens and sex with your spouse may not be like you had dreamed it to be before marriage but sex with your spouse is important.
Because……
Sex in marriage really is to help keep everyone sane and calm. 🙂
No seriously, the benefits of sex outweigh the reasons not to have sex.
The Benefits of Sex in YOUR MARRIAGE
If nothing else, sex will take your mind off your troubles. If you can't sleep, have sex and have a good orgasm. That should definitely help you get some sleep. Sex helps with reducing stress so it naturally will help with keeping your blood pressure at a decent rate. Sex is a form of exercise. If you are like me, exercising isn't high on my list but sex is. So get your exercise in by any means necessary. I say it boosts your immunity to deal with bullshit again see #1, but the doctors say it helps fight off sickness.5 benefits of sex in marriage
1. Relieves Stress
2. Help with InsomniaÂ
3. Lowers your blood pressureÂ
4. Burns Calories
5. Boost your body immunity
I can’t tell you to have sex every day. I can’t tell you that you need to have sex once a week but what I can tell you is: have a sex life that is healthy for you and your spouse. As long as everyone is happy with the frequency of the sex, then by all means stick with it!!!!
How do you guys manage the frequency of sex in your marriage?
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