We all know that our words form our thoughts & influence our actions.
So why are you still thinking negative? Why negative words are constantly flowing off your tongue?
WHY?
If you are constantly thinking your spouse is a louse then everything they do will be lousy in your eyes. No matter how hard they try, nothing will be right.
It’s not fair to your spouse, your marriage or you to have these negative thoughts & expect your spouse to overcome YOUR issues.
Change you, change your way of thinking & watch how things in your marriage changes.
What negative thoughts do you need to bury & remove out of your marriage?
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Eleanor says
Nothing good ever came from focusing on the negative. I know I fell in love with my husband for so many reasons, he is not perfect. However, he accepts me and all of my imperfections. I know I am very proud of him, even when he does something that I wish he would change. But I don’t dwell on it, I find ways to try be encouraging with out turning him off or indicating that that is something I wish he would change. Plus I know there are things about me that need to be changed also.
Sandi says
Love this, Pamela. Our thoughts really do determine our actions, and if we want loving marriages we can’t be stinking thinking 😉 Thanks for sharing!
Still Dating My Spouse says
Eleanor,
Absolutely! We all have something that I’m sure our spouse wish we would change but they love us regardless!
Pamela