At the start of a new year, people focus on their health, finances and set goals to achieve their life dreams. However, some couples fail to take the time focus on what they want for their marriage and from their spouse. As couples, we not only need to be aware of our health and finances but we must be aware of what’s happening in our marriage.
This is a new year. A new beginning. And things will change.- Taylor Swift
As you are planning out your year, I admonish you to refocus some of your thoughts, energy and time to your marriage. Refocus is all about focusing on something else and/or to give a second look.
To refocus your energy in marriage isn’t about forsaking any aspects of your marriage or spouse but more so to give attention to the areas that need strengthening and to continue nurturing the areas that are good.
Don’t worry, nothing and definitely no one will be neglected.
The best way to refocus your marriage is to make sure you and your spouse understand your thoughts and actions are marriage centered and not self centered or serving.
Once you align everything to work with your marriage instead of your marriage working with everything, you will notice a positive shift in the dynamics between you and your spouse.
So to truly achieve this alignment in your marriage, you guys must:
Recommit to your spouse
Evaluate how you spend your time
Forgo self serving actions
Observe how you react and interact with your spouse
Commit to dating your spouse regularly
Unify as one body in all decisions
Spiritual agreement. Don’t be unequally yoked
What do you need to refocus on concerning your marriage?
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