Your marriage walk is unique to you & your spouse; however, the dynamics of marriage are the same in every marriage. What are you depositing into your marriage bank? Stop withdrawing from the marriage if you are not making regular deposits. Making regular deposits will help you guys rebuild! The rebuilding process of a marriage broken have some of the same steps but which step you begin with is unique to your marriage.
We get so busy trying to advance our careers, paying bills & taking care of the family that the things we use to do to & for our spouse takes a back seat. There is no time to communicate due to work, school, & kids….
When marriages are just happening with no real input from the husband & wife, the couples will encounter problems. These problems shouldn’t lead the couples to automatically seek to end the marriage.
When problems do arise, it does seem like there is no way out. Communication & respect is not happening. Couples begin to pull more & more apart. They seek the attention & conversation for outsiders instead of putting that energy onto their marriage.
Just how can you rebuild your marriage? Oh it will not be easy but it is doable. You have to be committed & you spouse has to be willing.
10 Steps to rebuilding your marriage
Bonus tip: Date your spouse. Date like you guys just meet & like you did before you got married. Date & talk often. Ask questions like you did she. Dating. Be consistent with your dating.
Marriage is work. When we stop working, the marriage stop progressing & thriving. Remember what you put into your marriage will be the outcome.
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