Alright, alright! It’s #NationalDateNightWeek. You know I’m super geeked about this week.
I realized I need to help you guys create a game plan to have regular date nights. It’s ok to be spontaneous but, umm, let’s be real: you are not being spontaneous.
You and your spouse keep pushing back and cancelling date nights to the point, you are not having them.
This STOPS TODAY!
This week, we will explore ways to help you and your spouse create and implement a date night routine that fits y’alls personality and life.
1. How to date? Under how, list the types of dates that fits y’all marriage dynamic. Should you have lunch dates, home dates, Daycare dates (these are dates you have while the kids are at daycare or the babysitter) or does work dates (dates on y’all lunch hour or take half a day off to have a monthly date with your spouse) fit y’all lifestyle best.
2. What do you like to do/what types of date nights would you guys have? Brainstorm the things y’all like doing. Share some of the places, activities you would like to do together. This is where you fantasize/dream. No idea is to big or too small.
3. When should you have date night? This is really where the real conversation will take place. Be honest about your expectations but also take into consideration, work hours. Oh but don’t let work be an excuse you cannot date. Go back and read #1.
Today, I want you to grab a cute journal, notepad or even a dry erase board and start discussing the date night routine you guys will put into place!
Let’s get it get it!
As always, if you need help or have questions or concerns, inbox, email, comment below or tweet me!
I can’t wait to see all the ahha moments y’all are going to have this week!